- A friend of mine said to me that her friend told her that she will marry a less attractive person, in other words, she will marry a “worwor person”.😂😂😂😂. Her reason was that she does not want other ladies to be rushing for her man.
According to her, marrying a less attractive person increases your chances of a peaceful home.😂😂😂 I laughed so uncontrollably that day because it was really so funny.
I know many people out there have same mentality who are driven by this principle. They have been rejecting advances from very attractive partners. They are waiting for their less attractive partner.
They believe that marrying a sweet and attractive spouse puts them at risk of having infidelity problem even before the marriage starts. 😂😂😂
It is quite funny to see how people make these kind of analysis and build a principle around it. I have heard some people say it and they went ahead to marry based on that principle and it did not solve their problem.
The truth is that there is no easy way of solving this problem of infidelity without marrying a spouse with character and discipline.
No matter how wowo your spouse look, there is someone he or she can cheat you with. Infidelity is not an appearance problem, it is a character and discipline problem. You need to make peace with this fact.
There is nobody that is not desirable to someone out there. So that principle is already floored.
What should you then do as a single person?
I believe that the major task lies in your ability to discover the real identity of your spouse. Who are they and what are their core values in life?
You don’t just listen to what they said to you, observe them and watch their patterns. If they are not sincere over little things like telling you where they are when you called them then they lack the truth in them.
This is where the challenge is and everyone should channel their energy in discovering the real identity of their partner. Do not relax because you met them in the church. The church is now a mixed multitude arena.
Believe them as you discover them, do not just believe what you are told. Remember the bible said we should watch first as we also pray. Don’t marry based on what you are told, marry based on the patterns you see.
Are you still one of those that believe in this principle? “Wahala for who no marry worwor”😂😂😂😂
©. Soromfechi Okereke